Wow, it has been a while since I posted. So much has gone on in the past month or so. I completed my first olympic distance triathlon. I've been learning a lot about attitudes and myself. I've begun to get back to reading again to improve myself. Enough talking about me.
Probably one of the biggest things during the past month was the death of two people I knew. I was not extremely close to either one of them, but their deaths still impacted me. One was a coworker at the State Capitol. She helped us as well with the Summer of Support group we have at the State Capitol. She was tragically killed in an auto accident. Her passing reminded me of the shortness of life, and that we must live it to the fullest. She has the most vigor and love for life. Always show love and appreciation for those in your life.
The other death was a family member. It was the husband of my Dad's first cousin. They live right down the road from my parents, and I used to do some work for them on occassion like cut the grass, check on the dogs when they went on vacation, etc. I can remember staying with them when I was younger when my parents went on a cruise. We were family even though we drifted apart some as the years went by. He was slightly older than my Dad.
For some reason his passing really affected me. I think it was because looking at his life I saw how his choices regarding his nutrition and exercise had impacted his life. He was overweight and suffering from heart disease, diabetes and other complications. His quality of life was impacted. The reason it impacted me so gratefully was because it caused me to think of my two grandfather's who passed away before their time from complications relating to lifestyle. I was forced to feel the pain from knowing their early deaths could have been prevented. People have to endure so much pain for these losses. It doesn't have to be that way! It hurts that my grandfather passed away from a heart attack when I was 9. I wish I had been able to spend more time with him and get to know him better. I wish I had his genes when it comes to muscle mass! His arms were huge! My other grandfather who loved me so unconditionally and helped support me during lawschool was taken too early as well from complications relating to diabetes and lack of proper diet over the years. These losses still hurt to this day. It caused concern as well because I can see others I dearly love around me struggling with some of the same issues.
Thinking through all these things gave me an even deeper desire to help others deal with these issues of nutrition and exercise. So many people do not know where to begin or what to do. It seems like such a huge mountain to climb because they may have lived that way for 40 or 50 years or more. For so many people it seems that it is just a part of life to have these complications, but I know it doesn't HAVE to be that way. I feel a calling to help others address these issues. I read a while back a statement in "Today Matters" by John Maxwell that physical health impacts us physically, emotionally and spiritually. The Gospels are filled with instances where Jesus had compassion and met the physical needs of people. Since He is the ultimate example, I should be trying to do the same.
Around the same time all of these events and thoughts were taking place, several people misjudged my motives. This was a painful process as well. I knew that my motives in this area were right, but I was able to use that to further examine and refine my thoughts. It can be so easy to view these circumstances in anger, but how much better to look for a learning experience from it!
There is so much more I'm learning, but I'll be breaking that up and sharing my thoughts in different posts. Writing can be so good for the soul.
Hope all is well with you as you are reading this. May God bless you.
Keith